Subtle Sexuality

This topic is a big one to pay attention to for many reasons. As I walk through life in any given city, it’s the subtle sexuality that always seems to get me. To be painfully honest, there is a certain magic in creating mystery for the black male. The way that you would wear a blouse to the office should not be the way you would wear it out on the town with your girlfriends. The way that you look into his eyes when you see him for the second or third time should be different from the first time that you saw him. Even the way that you say his name should change from time to time. These things should all be handled in the same way, very carefully.
Recently, I was out on the town with a young lady. She was wearing this perfume that was driving me so insanely crazy, however, I did not let her know until the evening had come to a close. I told her that her scent this evening was simply incredible and that I had enjoyed it more than I could explain. I am sure that I did not use those words, but I did get my point across. As soon as I finished that sentence, she stepped closer to me, looked me straight in the eye and thanked me. That moment was magical because as she thanked me she ran her hand from the top side of my right ear to my chin and then kissed me slowly on the cheek. Why was that subtle, you may be asking? Because the hand was unexpected, however, it truly got my attention and I am now writing about it. I believe that the black man must be fed slowly and not given the honey too early. This is what keeps us engaged.
Eyes can play a very big role in the process as well. Most women seem to have a problem looking a man in the eye for too long. I guess that can also be said about black men as well. This can be such a big trump card for you though. When a woman looks into my eyes in that certain way, words are not even necessary and that can be the icing on the cake at times. A deep look in to those eyes and a slight movement of the lips can do wonders…Check out “How To Flirt” on the sidebar to the right. Enjoy!!!

What Turns The Black Man On?

There are definite things that I can truly say will turn the black man on. I must also say that on the other hand, the black man is most often misunderstood and misjudged. Some even think that the black man is totally sexually driven and has no real understanding or need for intimacy or emotions. These things could not be further from the truth on any day.

So what can you do to slowly get him in your corner? You can start out by complimenting him when he needs it the most. Remember, as I said previously though, not too much too soon. The bottom line is that when he is treated special at a time when the woman is expected to be against him, that is a major turn on. We all can agree that actions do speak louder than words, so the actions will always be king where this is concerned. For example, who says that the man has to be the first person to initiate intimacy? Take the bull by the horns when he least expects it and blow him away. I don’t mean that literally, but we will touch on that in a later posting. Black men want to be desired just like the woman does. If he feels that you are hungry for him, he will most likely reciprocate in turn. It may even win you some extra bonus under the sheets points….Here is another pointer. Also, a black man is not always turned on by a woman who attends to his every need. Remember that your strength and ability to take care of your own can be very attractive to the strong black man. For the most part, likes do attract, so mirroring his strength could very well draw him closer to you. Be yourself and not the woman you think that he wants you to be.

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What Are You Offering?

Women are powerful beings, there is no doubt about this. So what are you offering to the world when you step out of your house? Are your teeth clean? Is your outfit well thought out? Do you show a little bit of cleavage to get noticed? Are you sending any messages out to men in general that keep them away from you? Well here is where I begin to let you know what may or may not be a complete turn off or turn on. There are just some things that black men in particular may not connect with at all. Remember that I am one black man among many, yet I have done my research.

1- Do not wear clothing that is smaller than your body.

2- Make sure that you save some of the perfume for the bottle when you apply it.

3- If you are about to approach me, please make sure your breath is in good shape.

4- It makes a difference if I CANNOT see your panty lines.

5- Make me think that you don’t notice me sometimes when you really do.

6- If you are going to ask about other women, be prepared to hear the truth.

7- When we are on a date, silence your phone. I am not interested in your girlfriends personal problems.

8- If I offer to pay, do not argue with me. Consider it my pleasure.

9- When you ask me a deep question, do not lose eye contact with me. This will bring out the truth easier.

10- If you compliment me too much too soon, I may think you are a bit desperate. Be light on this…

I Am A Black Man

Do you fantasize about being able to please me? Will you allow me to tell you all of my triggers so that you can have your way with me in and out of the bed? This is a blog for you and you will not be sorry that you have come here. I will not hold back anything, however, I will give you information in a very slow and deliberate way. I cannot guarantee that this information will bring you to me, I can only give you the tools to prepare you. Are you a Black, White, Hispanic, Indian, Mexican, Chinese, African, or even Japanese? I am here to tell you that it does not matter in the least. Every woman has a chance at getting the attention of a black man and possibly keeping it if she does and says the right things along the way. I will remain anonymous during this journey so that I do not get in the way. I am here to guide whomever is willing to stay the course and just be patient. The black man is a special man and he will not settle for the most part. He wants what he wants and he will not stop unless he gets it. That also means that you have to get your game tight to even show up on his radar. Please do not get the wrong idea here. This blog is set up to attract a good black man, not just the average one. So please bookmark this page and come back often so that you can reap the benefits of these underground techniques. Obviously, I am a real person, so take each posting seriously and do not be afraid to get on the field and try anything I suggest. Lastly, keep in mind that you are here because what you are doing right now is not working for you or because you would like to take it to another level. You may even be here because you are looking to delve into a completely new area. I can help you with all of these scenarios. Thank you for dropping by. Let the games begin………………